SK
11 posts
March 28, 2015 5:31 PM MDT
If I were conducting an interview on OPMD, and you were given a segment of time, what would you like to tell the world about this genetic disease, so they would have a better understanding.
Jersey Girl
March 30, 2015 8:05 AM MDT
When it is an uninfomed doctor I give them the basic facts about late onset, dysphagia, ptosis and limb weakness, etc.
Perhaps more important to me is how I am seen or treated by friends, acquaintances, employers and even family as a result of having OPMD.
I’ve posted about this in Emotional Support, but I’ll include the basics here:
There are four things that I absolutely do not like hearing from people
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When I tell someone I have muscular dystrophy, and they say, “I’m sorry. I didn’t know you were sick.”
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Don’t worry about the flight of stairs you have to climb to get into my house, we’ll help you! You’ll be fine! Oh come on, you can do it!"
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Why are YOU on disability? You don’t look like there is anything wrong with you at all!
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(This one really irks me!) Two seconds after I tell someone I have muscular dystrophy, they say, “Oh, I didn’t realize that you have multiple sclerosis.”
Jersey Girl
SK
11 posts
April 3, 2015 6:45 PM MDT
Thanks for your reply, Jersey Girl, I’m sure most people don’t even know what it is, I had to ‘google’ it. I mean most of us understand MD, but not OPMD. It’s difficult to know what to say to people. As careful and as caring as I am, I have sometimes said the wrong thing, or people took it the wrong way! I have found that we need to be extra forgiving to others who do not understand what we have, but since we are on the topic, here are a few of mine that come to mind.
As far as my primary disease, which is Psoriatic Arthritis, everyone has seen the Enbrel commercials with Phil Michelson, so they assume that the meds will make you well enough to go play golf! HA! Lyrica will make you want to go run through the meadows, and fix the Fibromyalgia, you get the picture!
There’s a very big difference between MS and MD, but that’s people! Ever watched Jimmy Kimmel go out on the streets and ask people questions, most don’t even know who the vice president is!
Jersey Girl
65 posts
April 4, 2015 8:10 AM MDT
Yes, I HAVE seen those snippets with Jimmy Kimmel, SK! And that is a great illustration.
Mostly, I think that it is an indicator of how people simply don’t listen to one another. If they were truly, deeply listening and paying attention then they would hear the distinction.
And I think that’s a good lesson for all of us to consider; including me!
JG
SK
April 4, 2015 8:38 AM MDT
We caught a “Blue Collar Comedy Special” the other night, laughed till we were breathless! There’s your sign! Love Those crazy guys!
Jersey Girl
65 posts
April 4, 2015 1:36 PM MDT
I don’t watch a lot of TV so I probably miss out on some funny shows.
I AM a huge Outlander fan, however!
JG
SK
11 posts
April 11, 2015 10:48 AM MDT
Hi JG, I haven’t seen that, isnt’ that on Stars? I have HBO, Cimemax and Showtime.
Jersey Girl
65 posts
April 11, 2015 12:08 PM MDT
It is on Starz, SK.
I read the books (the first time) in 2000. The show is icing on the cake, and so well done!
I highly recommend the books; they satisfy all genres and have an appeal for everyone; romance, history, a bit of sci fi (not much, though, or I’d never have read them), historical fiction to give life to the history … its all there!
JG